My grandma is textbook narcissistic and have been creating absurd lies about my family.
My grandma lives with my dad currently. She had three children, one died and the other one hates her (mutually), so my dad took the load (although he depises her as well). She's absolutely crazy. She creates absurd lies to put everyone against each other, to the point that she even said that my dad:
- Is having orgies with our neighbors
- Is a pedophile
- Used to have an affair with his uncle
And she even said to my mother that I was kissing my dad, this is an absolute lie and sometimes it even scares me that she'll one day decide to say this someone else. My mom knows she's lying because she went through the same thing when she was married to my dad, she'd rip my dad's clothes and tell him it was my mother who did it
When you criticize her, she will sometimes start screaming "hit me then!! kill me!!".
Honestly, this doesn't affect me too much directly because I'm a genius in ignoring my grandma. She talks to me and I don't even react or anything. I just pretend she doesn't exist.
She is such a snake, and she'll never change. She lost almost everyone. Her siblings don't talk to her, her children all hate her, no one comes to visit. She lost her husband, who divorced her a long time ago (and of course, she tells a bunch of absurd lies about him and his wife). I even remember her celebrations when my grandpa died.
The funniest part? She's a psychologist. Ironic, isn't it?