Odd_Dress

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2025-01-31 00:11:56

I’m so angry and embarrassed I stayed so long

If you are financially tied to your stbx, it's time to sever those ties. It shouldn't be as hard as if you were married unless you own property together. Then you'll want to consult a lawyer. Start removing yourself from any joint accounts you have. If you're renting, speak with the leasing office to establish an agreement for you to pay off your part of the lease. Rent a storage unit and start moving your things. Have your mail forwarded to a P.O. box. You've already made up your mind to leave. Put a plan in action and focus on that. This transition will be hard, but you're strong, and you will get through this.

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I unfortunately started a honeymoon fund 3 years ago. It’s about 15k, we were not going to have a big wedding but I wanted a baller honeymoon. He has that in a CD I don’t have access to. I know I know, but I never planned on any of this.

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Make him give you half back. Otherwise, get an attorney and ask for it ALL back if you are the only one who contributed and you have proof of each (or even most) of the deposits. Don't let him screw you over on this OP. He's taken enough!

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I really don’t think he will give me a hard time to get it back. He’s got enough money. And it all came from my direct deposits at my old job

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