Memorial was too “person-centric”

Recently heard someone say that a memorial for a witness that had died was too focused on the person themself. They outright stated that memorials aren’t to talk about the deceased, but to strengthen our hope and share it with their non-believing loved ones. This person also complained that the memories people were sharing privately about the deceased “weren’t spiritual enough”.

Death is dealt with so terribly in this religion. Every time I attend a witness memorial, it’s all I can do to not beg my family to do literally anything else if I die before they do. The memorial was for someone who had a huge, non-witness portion of their life, but all of that was put aside to talk about how much the deceased “loved bible prophecies” (questionable). I would be turning in my grave if they said those things about me.