Why We Get Gaslit

The average man is a 5’9 white guy, he grows up in a normal home, goes to a normal school, has normal friends, flirts and dates with other normal women, has an average of 3 relationships just by talking to women like his normal self would, before finding his 4th one and marries/has kids with her.

This man never figured out what turns women on or what exactly made him attractive to these women, he just lived a normal life and spoke to women like normal people and eventually landed dates and relationships like normal people do.

He brushes it up to “confidence” and “Treat women like you would anyone else”, it worked for him so it must work for everyone else… right?

Introducing the foreveraloner. He’s 5’6, foreign, doesn’t conform to any of the Eurocentric beauty standards, he was bullied by his peers in school for his skin colour or because he’s the small kid that anyone can easily overpower. The girls would look at him and say “Ew”.

He grows up, tries to do what any normal people do and talk with women, he’s met with indifference or even malice, he’s met with rejection after rejection and has no idea why, he’s not a bad dude yet the men around him are going around getting girlfriends like it’s nothing.

So he starts researching, PUA, TRP, Manosphere, studies, articles, field reports, he finds people in a similar predicament to himself, all the evidence points towards the same obvious conclusion, women are indeed attracted to tall, handsome, white, muscular men who are wealthy and popular. Women are not attracted to short, ugly, foreign, weak men who are poor and unpopular.

Why does it make sense? Because your normal average man isn’t in a position where he ever needs to feel like something is really wrong in his life to start researching into why women are not interested in him.