is it possible for children to “traumatize” their parents or is this just tti lies

one thing my mom likes to say a lot is that i “traumatized” her as a kid, and this is why she sent me away and why she still has difficulties “dealing” with me today.

the tti told my mom to ignore me when i was in an emotional state. or threaten to call the police. so she did. i remember once when i was 12, we were driving to the TTI after i had done residential, and i was in their partial hospitalization program. and i was talking to her about something and i was very emotional and she started flat out ignoring me. just staring straight ahead,not speaking. this triggered me more and i began yelling, but she didn’t stop ignoring me. she just stared straight ahead, saying nothing, for miles.

she would also threaten to call the police on me for things like not wanting to clean my room.

i never physically attacked her. i cut myself and hit myself a lot. but she says i traumatized her. but i was just a kid, i wanted to be loved and accepted and i needed real help and she sent me to a facility to get abused.

do children really traumatize their parents? or is that just more lies that the TTI feeds these parents?