Dating as a Taller Woman

I (35F) has only been in two relationships my entire life. Not because I wanted to, but because men don’t ask me out. So, I became the ‘aggressor’ and started to ask men out. I’ve tried dating apps, fb groups, etc but nothing substantial comes from it. It’s weird bc I’m doing what I’ve seen others do but I’m left being the ‘fun down to earth woman’ that is good enough for hookups but not enough to commit to?

I’m 6ft tall with an athletic build. Super nerd and introvert. It’s starting to feel like there’s something wrong with me. Or that I have terrible taste in men. Every interaction I have with a man it’s me initiating contact, dates, communication.

I try not to compare myself to my friends but it’s hard sometimes. Characteristics that are seen as feminine on them are aggressive on me. ( my height, I guess) It’s starting to feel like I’m aging out of the dating pool and I feel embarrassed to say that I don’t know when a man actually likes me, just that he wants to lay down with me.