Gently Rejecting Someone

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How to gently reject someone na may nadevelop na feelings sa iyo?

As a person na saktong maalaga, introvert, hard working, generous, considerate, and kind, may mga bagay siguro talaga na nagsesend ng mix signals. It has even pointed out sa akin na I am too kind, and probably gives the wrong signals.

Naturally, dahil considerate, and generous person, I try to accomodate their wishes to meet with me even if at times I don't feel like it kasi pagod sa work, or nanghihinayang sa gastos everytime na lalabas.

TLDR, gently rejecting someone before they develop deeper feelings, even if you are just being kind.

P.S. How to deal with guys na first sex pa lang, babe na agad tawag? Does that even count since more than a year na nag uusap?