Partner Khuje pawa ki tiring after a point?

28M. Wanted to collect thoughts.

Lat 3 years ami r meye persue korina. I see through them and then mone hoi not worth it.

I have been in to relationships. Last ta 7years last korechilo. Or por r korini..last 3 years I only focused on travelling, growth and building things.

Fast forward ekhon recently ekjon close friend ekta sundor relationship e galo and I felt i should give this a try again.

Hence I opened Tinder and met few women. (In Bangalore)

Let me be brief:

26 and 28 duto meye r sathe date e gechilam. I didn't put a lot of filter while chattin and wanted to see them upclose. One were trash talking about their ex and rushing into things. Ar second ta was pure victim mentality type person. Also they don't align well with my interests so i stopped.

Next i went out with a 23y old women. I liked her. She had a vibe..witty and smart... But 3rd day I understood she was a consistent liar. So dropped her too.

Ta ekhon abr shei dilemma te. Khujbo na khujbona.

To all the elders- is it hard to find a decent happy go partner when you are older?

Ai age bracket e is it only me or it's a common struggle to have?