do women actually find relationships with submissive men satisfying?
these relationships are so incredibly rare and the only time I see them it seems like the women isn't really satisfied or enjoying it. unless they're illustrations which seem more directed toward men then women.
it's my dream to have a relationship where I can be myself. I would never last in a traditional relationship where I'm supposed to be the super masculine dominant figure. but thats also the complete opposite of what women are biologically attracted to.
the last thing I want is for the other person to not be enjoying themselves or being disgusted by it, wishing I was able to fit that hyper masculine need and just going along with it because they think that's what would make me happy. just seems super unfair and an enormous turn off for me.