Hideaway - Why do we always have to go?

Silly rant now. But its so annoying to me that we do not have an option to refuse to go to the Hideaway. Even if I am not feeling any connection with a potential LI, MC is forced to go to the Hideaway. I DEMAND AN OPTION TO REJECT! 😅😆 Honestly, why does this have to be forced? And there are other couples that could totes go instead of it being wasted on MC... That's all. Just needed a rant.