Popping gone wrong?

Hey Guys. I just got a new baby Corn Snake and I am really excited. I really wanted a male. So I watched a bunch of videos about popping and trying to tell the gender. I thought it was a male when I first got it but I tried popping it today. Im pretty sure it's a female. Unless I somehow popped the hemipenes.... My first attempt I feel like I squeezed way to hard. It pushed out a poop, I partly squeezed it out on accident. I tried to pin my finger right above the hole but maybe it had a poop ready that I pressured just right idk. Anyway I thought I might have seen 2 red dots appear on either side the first time around. I did 3 more attempts. Trying to go it's pace (or maybe her pace) and no pop out. I am seeing nothing pop out. I don't see blood at all. Maybe slight red but that's it. I think that's normal because I saw that my first go around. What do y'all think. Is it possible to pop them? That's my main concern. If I'm not seeing anything and I squeezed too hard at first? It/she is just very scared it seems now. Rushed in the cave as soon as I put it/her in