i’m 25 and i’ve never had sex

im F25 and ive never had sex in my entire life because im scared, not of the sex itself but im scared of how my partner wont find me attractive once they see me under these clothes. i’m not worried about my hygiene but im worried about my hyperpigmentation down there. im southeast asian and for as long as i can remember it’s always been very dark down there and it makes me very insecure to show my body to someone. i’m scared that they’ll judge me and think it’s disgusting