So this was unexpected.

Last night my ex fiancé (by today) told me no one else will love me and that marriage for him is easier because he’s better than me. Then he continued to insult me and gaslight me then guilt tripped me. Today he refused to apologise and when I told him I need time to decide if we should continue (I needed time to discus with family) he said he’s gonna block me, delete my numbers and get rid of everything I gifted him. And mind you he did the same thing after we had an argument last time but he disappeared for a week. I’m unsure what to do because I’m extremely hurt and confused. Any advice on how to move on from this would be appreciated.

(Also no I do not live in an area where a Muslim imam is and no I can’t travel anywhere to get advice from one) EDIT I also forgot to mention he also told me that he “settled” for me because he felt bad no one else would want me

Another edit

Please stay on topic on my post , please do not haram police me or other people for that isn’t what the post is asking or what im even asking. Yes to Clairify MY WALI IS INVOLVED for those so insitant in saying I’m doing bad because we talked for one of the stages of marriage. Yes my parents knew, yes they checked and read all of our messages and yes he said these things in front of them that lead to him ranting about why no one wants me now please stop haram policing and stay on topic it shouldn’t be hard.