1st Birthday party

Im trying to plan my babys 1st birthday. I'm finding it hard not thinking I am not doing enough. I see so many people drop 1000s on venues or full on catering. I am just trying to find enough money for decoration. I have to have it at a family memebers house since ours is to small. Does anyone else feel this way or like have advice on how to save money but still have the "perfect photo" quality event.