You attract what you are, instead of what you want :).
This really reflected to me on a deeper level. People often say” fake it till u make it”. It might or might not resonate with some people, but to truly attract the things u wish in your life, eg. better relationships, confidence and beauty and so on… you have to start acknowledging yourself as the person who has those things already. Manifestation methods are tools to help u achieve that state. That’s why people visualize, affirm, saturate their minds… because it helps them believe that it’s already in their lives, and that’s when manifestation happens.
Pro tip: protect your energy ! Keeping yourself at a high vibration allows you to feel good, and when you feel good, you attract things that are of similar energy and vibration.