Leaving this sub

Guys, I finally think it‘s time to leave this subreddit!! After two full years of constant ups and downs and crying almost every day I finally made it! 🥹 On Christmas Eve two years ago I got cheated on by „the love of my life at that time“ (F23) and I (M22) came into the most dark place of my life ever. I was diagnosed with depression, I had quit my job, had many beloved ones pass away and truly lived in a hole for quite a while. I even had suicide thoughts… It was rough. Always had hopes she‘d come back and was delusional but she never did. She did give me a lot of breadcrumbs tho, texting all sorts of things from time to time…

But guys, life is like a wheel, sometimes ur at the bottom but with time u‘ll find yourself at the top again and here I am!! Lots of reflecting, writing in my diary, reading and working out helped me a lot getting out of this again and just accepting that time is not constant. That I don‘t need to stress myself of getting over somebody - some peeps like me just take longer than others and that‘s totally okay!

I had also realised that you cannot truly be with somebody else if you‘re not at peace with yourself. Don‘t make the same mistake as I did and rely your happiness on others! Adopting that mindset helped me a lot and that way I was also ready to mingle again. Since about 2 months, I met a new girl in a restaurant and it‘d going really well! Last weekend it was the first time she had slept over at my place & I honestly think we balance each other out way more than my ex. I‘m truly so happy!! Moral of the story, just never give up, if I can do it, u can too!