I (26f) was probably dumped because I did not have the "sweet mysterious small girl with dark hair that all boys want" looks and he also wanted to fuck other hot people

I'd say I am 7/10 but I:
- Always supported his passions/dreams
- Gave gifts, sent cards, bought flowers
- Planned dates, took him to dinners
- I am in 10% top earners in my country
- I am creative and have my own painting expos
- Was there for him emotionally, he could always come to me, I love holding space for people

But he (30m, avoidant) still ended up abusive and dreaming/writing about/wanting other girls from his past and CLUBS that..by the end of him treating me with so much hatred and coldness he dumped me. No contact since.

ARE LOOKS SERIOUSLY SO SO IMPORTANT FOR YOU MEN?

Just trying to work on myself and do better. Thank you.