I’m logging all my sexual activity in 2025

Four days in, there hasn’t been any intercourse. We’ll see how long that streak lasts, but I’m betting we’re not going to have sex more than twice a month. The frequency has been slowly but surely ticking down for the several years we’ve been married. I’ve all but stopped initiating, and I think for this little tracking project I’m going to see how long it takes for her to initiate.

This just sucks. I don’t want to never get to have sex just because I married someone with a low libido, but I don’t want to leave or step out on my wife either - I love her. But this is a need of mine, and it’s not being met.