1 year in Cebu and still no friends
So nag 1 year+ nako sa Cebu and wala pa gihapon friends here na ma one call away nako lol
I'm a mid 20s introvert and a school-straight-to-home and vice versa type of person. I have acquaintances naman sad from my school but dili siya sa level nga I get invited out or I can invite them out. I was so at peace with my lifestyle kay lagi it was the best way to steer away from drama but lately, it feels kinda lonely to think about it. Murag nag hit siya sako nga maybe I don't like it kay wala koy na invite out sako birthday to celebrate and share my cake with or even have people to grab coffee with just because it's a nice day for a good talk.
I'm still in contact with my og highschool barkada but lagyo na kaayo mi with kanya kanyang navigate sa adult life. I know very peaceful akong life karon but gimingaw nako kanang naay other people to laugh with and maka chika chika panagsa (except sa chika nga maka bring in og bad energy like backstabbing people). I miss the energy nga naay mag share about their day or receive a random message nga dili lami ilang coffee na order lol.
Decided to step out of my comfort zone so hey, if naa pamo spot sainyong circle maybe mada pa?? Or maybe a gc or discord is fine just to keep my phone alive?? And clearly, I am NOT looking for a romantic relationship or hook ups. 🥹🥹 Building connections is also a goal.
Dili ko pilian but I'd appreciate it if you understand that if we're out I might need a quick social battery recharge so I'd go quiet for a while then balik og saba saba na after. I am known also as a "group mom" so I take care of people when they're drunk and will literally be on the side of the road for you if mutabok sa kalsada. I'm a tall girly so a lot of my girl friends would say that I'm the best person for hugs.
My only perk is tag balay kaayo ko nga tawo so if mangutana mo asa ta manglaag.. wala jud koy masuggest 🥲
Please be nice guys. Thank ü!