has anyone struggled with BPD and recovered? how did you do it?

i am a 20 year old girl and i have BPD. i want to go to an intensive outpatient therapy program but my family won’t support me through it. i don’t know what to do. i feel like i’ll never get better at this rate. i’m considering inpatient but i doubt there’s any good hospitals around me.

god, what do i do? i want to get better.