AIO Wife nudies? Am i being a jerk-

AITAH ok, so we’ve been married 20 yrs. She acutually moved from washington state to NC to be with me. We met on her vacation and she moved to me.

Here is my issue. No crap, honest injun, i ask her EVERYDAY what i can do to help her. I make a list and get it done.Even still she complains that i haven’t done X or Y. Here is the kicker. I haven’t been told she wants X or Y. If she asks she gets it. Seriously

For example i say “hey babe, id really like you to put some belt loops on these pants. Please” never gets done. Ever. I even put it on a to-do like i ask her to do for me. If i put it on a to-do it gets done in no less than a week.

I am currently out of country seeking investment property. So far i have been gone 3 weeks. Ive asked for one thing. One. A hot pic,of her. Thats it. Not a single pic. Not one. How would you feel? I dont require her face to be in it. Just want a lil something some thin to keep me excited. Would take all of 60 seconds.