Why doesn’t it matter if I get offended at something my trans daughter says to me but if I offend my trans daughter it’s horrible ?

Got referred for surgery but my friend is pressuring me to get a second opinion

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My trans daughter looks very masculine and may never “pass”. I’m worried for her.

Genuine question. I want to learn and understand the trans community better. I’m open-minded and don’t want hate. I’m nervous to ask but…