I've got $40,000 burning a hole in my pocket, what car should I buy?

I've been driving a beater for the past 10 years and I'm ready to pull the trigger on a new vehicle. I want something for hauling kids around, but is also fun to drive.

Preferably an SUV or a wagon.

Econo boxes are totally out of the question.

Hopefully something with some luxury features. Heated seats, heated steering wheel, sunroof, leather.