Lost a friend

Long story- sorry!

So I’ve (32f) had a good friend (32f) for a while. Going on 9ish years. We’ve been there for each other insanely, particularly over the last 5 years. We did almost everything together, she helped take care of me after two surgeries, I helped with her physical and mental ailments, she was one of my very best friends.

A year ago she told me at a bar “I have to admit.. I’m kind of a Swiftie…” okay? Idc lol. Fast forward to this past June. I posted something on Facebook about Dave Grohl saying TS lip syncs, and had a conversation with various commenters about him saying that after his 18/19 year old daughter was getting death threats from Switfies after pointing out her flying and whatnot. Nothing was EVER said about TS through the whole comment thread- aside from her flying and her fans. My “friend” decided to type out a massive comment, 3 days later. Very aggressively I might add. I was absolutely dumbfounded by what she was saying, mostly her last blurb saying “it’s absolutely DISGUSTING that a woman would talk so much hate about another woman, about her relationships, appearance, talent, etc.”. Nothing was ever said about her??? I was so confused!

I took a few days to reply to her because I didn’t want to respond emotionally. I hit every single bullet point of her 4 paragraphs, specifically the last one about women hating on women, and said that none of that was mentioned in this thread and I wasn’t sure where she was coming from. Dead silence after that. We talked almost every day for 8+ years. Nothing.

Fast forward to ~2 months ago, I realized I was blocked from all her social media accounts. That pissed me off like no other, so I deleted her, because WTAF?! She got THAT upset over one of her best friends talking about a celebrity (even though I hardly even mentioned her name) who doesn’t know that she even exists…? Really??

My birthday was in October and I was thinking “hey.. maybe she’ll come around and casually text me and say happy birthday!” Nada. So I’ve officially lost a friendship over TSwift apparently?

I just figured this sub might get some sort of kick out of this situation lol