Struggling to juggle newborn and toddler. Advice? Camaraderie?

Feeling guilty and sad today because I spent practically no time with my 2.5 year old. I have a 2 month old and I’m just really struggling to give my toddler the quality time with me he should have. I usually carve out 30 min-1 hour a day, but it’s at inconsistent times and my toddler is struggling with not knowing when to expect his 1-1 time.

The main issue is my newborn just won’t take a bottle (working on it slowly) and gets super fussy in the evening when I’d normally get my quality time with my toddler.

Anyone else just not know how to juggle this new life stage?