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Yes, it's all true what they say about Strippers ...They only want one thing -Your Money!
And 'Yes' different Strippers have different ways about getting -Your Money.
Unfortunately, there are some Dancers who will go waaaaaay beyond their job description, in order to get -Your Money.
And if I'm not being clear enough, then I mean to inform you that there are certain Dancers who will do 'Extra Naughty Stuff' in the back rooms to get -Your Money.
Now, I'm sure there are some Gentlemen Clubs out there (in let's say; West Virginia or City of Industry CA.) where anything goes.
And those Dancer's are more than willing to offer you ANY kind of service you might want, in order to get -Your Money.
Well, guess what! that shit is against the rules in my Club, and I'm pretty sure it's illegal in most other Clubs too.
But, in-case you weren't aware of it, We Are Not Whores! ...We are actually 'Entertainers' (Shocking -I Know huh!)
-And, we don't need to be entertaining the customer's penises with our Hands, Mouth, or Vagina.
So, to all you Dirty-Dancers out there who might be willing to do (-or already are doing) 'Extra Naughty Stuff' in the back:
#1.) You need to realize that you are making it very difficult for the legitimate Dancers in the Club -who DO NOT DO that stuff!
Because when a customer knows there are 'Dirty-Dancers' in the club (who will offer them Sex & Other Extra's) -then they begin to expect it from all of us.
Suddenly, what used to be a safe & legal place to get a harmless lap dance, soon becomes 'Sexual-Assault-Central'
So, rather than having the customers expect 'Extras' from 'ALL' of the Dancers, some Customers may only choose to get lap-dances from certain girls, who they know will provide those Naughty Extras.
That means; those Dancer's who are screwing our customers, are also screwing over all the other girls who actually follow the rules.
#2.) You're risking getting all of us arrested.
Because if an undercover cop finds out that a Dancer is doing 'Naughty Extras' -then he can arrest all of the girls in the club.
*Actually, that's Not 100% True.
Although, in some situations (Like a Drug-Bust or a Prostitution Sweep) multiple-arrests could occur as a group.
But actually being charged with a crime is on a Case-by-Case basis, and you cannot be charged with a crime unless they have solid evidence that you personally Broke-the-Law.
BTW all those former 'Prostitution Sweeps' are now becoming a thing of the past, as they are now very-very rare events (-even if at all)
That's because now, most (City's or County's) have deemed them totally ineffective as a deterrent, and then they'd also have to deal with the legal-backlash from Dancer's filing lawsuits against the City/ County/ Police dept.'s. for 'False Arrest'
Most Police Departments will only do an 'Entertainer License Enforcement' now, mainly as a scare tactic, -but it has no real teeth in it, and they know it.
-It has even backfired on them before, such as in the case at Cheetah's in San Diego, where the City had to pay-out monetary reparations to several Dancers for 4th-Ammendment violations
F.Y.I. a Prostitution charge is actually a low-level misdemeanor anyway, oftentimes negotiated down to a Citation for Disturbing-the-Peace (or some such similar terminology depending on the State or County)
#3.) You should be aware that if your co-workers know that you're a Dirty-Dancer, then they will tell the other Dancer's and complain to Management about you.
And the other Dancer's will talk mad shit about you, then get into fights with you, and throw your shit away.
Example; When a Dancer at my club came back to work after a 1-week suspension (from getting caught receiving oral sex from a customer)
...all of the other girls poured drinks on her clothes and threw her stuff in the trash, and she can no longer keep her clothes or make-up in the dressing room.
Bottom Line: Respect the Rules, Respect the Hustle, and Respect your Fellow Dancers.
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Ok, So as you stated (above) "...Respect your Fellow Dancers"
Well, if you poured Drinks on another Dancer's clothes (-or permitted it, -or encouraged it)
And then threw her Clothes & Make-up into the trash (-or permitted it, -or encouraged it)
Then 'YOU' are guilty of perpetuating 'Vigilante Justice' (and whatever comes around, also goes around)
Meaning; they can certainly do the same thing to you one day.
Throwing away (or damaging) another entertainer's personal property is Not Cool!
It's Drama-Fueled Vigilante Justice, and the Gossip-y, Jealous, Retaliation will only escalate even further.
Can you explain to me how throwing away another dancer's stuff, is your way of 'Respecting your Fellow Dancer'???
Even if you didn't personally do that, your article makes it sound like you support that kind of Retaliatory Behavior!
As you stated (above) "...Strippers have different ways about getting -Your Money" & "Respect the Hustle"
Shouldn't each Entertainer be allowed to work her own Seductive Magic, in her own unique way?
...and also be allowed to negotiate things like; Pushing-Her-Personal-Boundaries or Playing-it-Safe? -depending on her Client?
Respecting the Hustle also means; You make your money -your way, ...and you let the other Dancer's make their money -their way.
-You Hustle! -They Hustle! -Everyone Hustles!
As you stated (above) "We are Entertainers..."
Yes, you're an Entertainer, -But you are NOT the 'Club Sheriff' -or the 'Lap-Dance Police'
Those responsibilities ultimately belong to the Club's Management, for whoever & whenever THEY choose to enforce it (with things like; Fines, Suspensions, or Terminations)
Obviously, those Dirty Dancer's already know 'The Risks' & 'The Rewards' ...and YOU will NOT be made to suffer for their BAD behavior, -nor can you profit from their Good behavior.
Also be aware that your Tattle-Tale-Tactics to Management will get you labeled as a 'Snitch' ...and remember; "Snitches-Get-Stitches-and-Land-in-the-Ditches-like-Punk-Ass-Bitches")
If you truly want to be respected by the Staff, Managers, & other Entertainers, then you shouldn't be a snitchy little tattle-tale.
Ultimately, YOU have no control (or authority) over the other Dancer's conduct.
And Yes, there will always be some Customers who ask for Extra's
(-at least some ask Up-Front, rather than when it's too late)
...And Yes, there will also be some Customers who prefer a Clean/Legitimate grind.
...And Yes, there will also be some Customers who like a little bit of both -at different times -from different Dancers.
As you stated (above) "...Respect the Rules"
Well, -If you personally live by those Principles, then Bravo for you! -But you cannot depend on the other Dancer's to live up to your principles or expectations.
Judging people, does not define who THEY are, -it defines who YOU are!
My advice to you is; try not to worry so much about those Dirty Dancer's, -they're not really your concern.
You've got bigger fish to fry -like trying to make some Money!?
So, focus your Game & your Energies on YOU, -rather than on what the other Dancer's are doing. (Basically, mind your own Beez-Wax)
Oh! ...And going to On-line Blog's & Forums to complain about the other Dancer's conduct is very immature.
You really need to be more Grown-Up about these things, and in due course, you'll become a much happier person, -if you can overcome these trivial personal issues.