What counts as being "goday" (ගොඩේ) ?

I just want to know what you think being goday (ගොඩේ) is. Is it your social class? Money? Language? Education level? Family background? Can you truly escape the curse of the ගොඩේ? I'm asking because I sure do feel ගොඩේ sometimes. It's not inherently a bad feeling (because it feels badass on occasion lmao) but it does screw with your self esteem sometimes.