I (27m) love being a super gentle daddy.
I'm writing this post wondering if any other gentle male doms can relate to this. Also wondering if any subs (M or F, I'm bi) are into this as well.
So I really love showering my subs with plenty of paternal care and loving. Lots of praise, cuddles, kisses, nibbles, sensual touching, playful teasing, etc. I'm not into violent or possibly hurtful things like choking, slapping, or degradation. I like my sub to know they're the cutest and prettiest princess ever, and they have all of my love.
If they want to play naughty and I can tell they wanna be a bad girl/boy I'll give them a stern look and tell them they've been a bad girl/boy, and toss them around more. Just being a little more rough than usual, but never to the degree where my partner gets worried or scared. That's the absolute last thing I want. My favorite thing is when my partner comes to me when they're scared of lightning, thunder, or storms and just need lots of care, cuddles, and reassurance. My cock literally starts to grow when I know I'm tending, and healing my partner.
After a whole bunch of sensual foreplay, and when she's thoroughly sopping wet, my mind in "beast mode" and I kind of ravage her hole, so my libido is super high in those moments haha. Also I almost always need to cum inside and fill my partner up with my cum. My breeding kink is very very strong. So I'm basically the definition of a gentle giant.
Lemme know your guys' thoughts on the topic and how you feel about gentle male doms, and/or when they should switch things up.