it’s so unfair for the person they get into a relationship with next because they’ve mentioned before that they don’t want to be with someone who isn’t okay with them staying friends so it really feels like there’s no room for conversation there just straight break up if you don’t like it
and 3. it’s weird that she says it’s toxic if you can’t stay friends, shit happens and people grow apart or even bigger things happen in relationships that lead to a break up, cutting off communication isn’t toxic
