Why do people act like “pretty privilege” doesn’t affect men?
Why do people act like pretty privilege only affects women when it probably affects men just as much?
Jeremy Meeks was a criminal, a robber, a gangster, a drug dealer, and almost beat a child to death. Yet he still became a multimillionaire model thanks to his looks, and got worshipped by women. I ask you this. Did he choose to be born with his looks? Did he actually put it any hard work in order to get where he is today?
Here's another question. How many mistakes is too many? 1? 10? 100?
When you're good looking, anything is possible.
Let's take a look at Ted Bundy. During the 70s Ted Bundy sexually assaulted, tortured, murdered, and decapitated 30 different women (the actual number of victims is definitely way higher). Yet, he still received hundreds of love letters from women while he was incarcerated and ended up marrying a woman he had met while working in Washington. I want you to really think about this one. A serial killer who was known for committing some of the worst acts known by humanity against 30 women, was still worshipped and was able to find a partner.
People will try to gaslight you and tell you your personality is the problem when in reality the most important factor in dating is your looks. How you look will directly influence how you're treated by everyone, and other things that you have no control over like your race and neurotypicality also play a big role in how people treat you.
"Girls don't care that much about your looks bro! I see so many ugly guys with beautiful girls all the time!"
"Most girls aren't racist bro, no one cares about what race you are!"
Asian men between the ages of 25-32 are half as likely as white men to get into a relationship because "a racial hierarchy explanation suggests that Asian American men will be less likely than Asian American women to be partnered, as Asian American men face gendered cultural stereotypes barring them from entry into romantic partnerships".
Women have even stronger race preferences than men. Most men prefer their own race, but when it comes to women it's "just be white bro".
It's no longer a racial preference, it's a racial dealbreaker.
"Girls don't care about your height, they just want someone taller than them!"
When will people stop gaslighting short, unattractive, and ethnic (south asian) men like myself into thinking it’s somehow OUR fault that women don’t like us?