Their obsession with beauty

Do you ever notice your narc family members obsession with appearances?

Every sentence my narc dad or grandmother initiate that involves a person is something like....

"This attractive young lady..." "Really good looking guy.. " "Homely person, poor thing...." "Acne-ridden with the horrible braces...."

And it's not even relevant to the story they're about to tell.

Sometimes they go in-depth with these descriptions....and all you asked is about what they did yesterday. Damn.