Honey to newborn

My grandmother wants to follow the obvious rituals and give honey (a drop) to the baby. Me and my husband don't, because fuck rituals. Honey in any amount is just not safe. She's traveling overseas for 3 months to take care of me and my baby. How do I say no to her without offending her? She also wants the baby to wear this nd that like some kind of silver, asafoetida wrapped in a cloth and i know that list will just go on nd on