Looking for advice on stimulation post-porn
Currently on day 28 without porn and really happy I’ve made it this far. It’s been helpful cutting out stimulus like instagram in addition to porn sites themselves (I followed many influencers who flaunted their bodies, even if it wasn’t pornographic).
I gave up porn because it became more about the media stimulation rather than the physical. I’d watch internet porn for as much as an hour and a half a day while slowly stroking (or sometimes not even stroking) to prolong the process. I’m really glad I gave up the porn but I’d still consider myself in withdrawal from the media simulation.
So now I’m looking to regrow my imagination/mental spank bank (I haven’t had one in about 10 years). I’m even open to other forms of stimulation - should I buy a toy? Any sites with good erotica? It might sound silly, but any tips?