feeling like being in a system with each other is fate?

we're a pretty small system (8, 1 in and out of inactivity so mostly 7), but lately we've been feeling like, despite being solely traumagenic, we were meant to all be here / in this system together. like it was fate to all meet each other in this specific circumstance

just curious if other systems have felt like this, not really looking for advice or anything but if theres a term / label that fits we would be interested :)

just an interesting experience we havent seen many systems, especially traumagenic ones, talk about. ive done some digging and i havent been able to find people with similar feelings, which is kind of crazy to me. i wouldve thought more systems would feel similarly