I can’t top with a condom on

As a newly converted top, how do y’all fuck with a condom on? Lumalambot yung akin huhuhu ilang beses na akong nag attempt di talaga. Tapos kahapon I went bare with the guy I’m dating and it was the best feeling and it was successful. Pero ayaw ko namang palaging raw especially if I wanna top again. Any tips? Nagwowork ba ang Passion Max to stay hard?