Live and Let live

I’ve been thinking a lot about how we treat people who don’t follow the “expected” path in Pakistan—whether it’s non-Muslims, ex-Muslims, people with different political views, or just anyone who chooses to live their life differently. And honestly, why do we care so much?

If someone isn’t harming anyone or breaking the law, why should it bother us how they live? Not everyone will have the same beliefs, and that’s okay. Pakistan is home to people of different religions, sects, and backgrounds. We always talk about Islam being a religion of peace, yet we’re quick to judge, ostracize, or even threaten those who don’t fit our mold. Why not just let people be?

A lot of people say that non-Muslims, ex-Muslims, or people with “different” lifestyles are corrupting society. But how? By existing? By making their own choices? Just because someone chooses a different path doesn’t mean they’re forcing it on you. If your faith or values are strong, someone else’s choices shouldn’t shake them. A non-Muslim practicing their faith doesn’t take away from yours. An ex-Muslim leaving Islam doesn’t weaken your belief. A woman choosing to wear or not wear a hijab is her personal decision. Someone questioning a cultural norm isn’t attacking you.

Instead of constantly policing how others live, why not focus on the real issues that are actually harming our society? The economy is collapsing, Palestine is being bombed daily, child marriages are still happening, and sexual abuse cases keep increasing. These are real problems that deserve outrage, not someone else’s personal choices.

At the end of the day, people will live the way they want. We don’t have to agree on everything, but basic decency goes a long way. Live and let live. It’s not that hard.