I hate gender stereotypes

I'm a male and I like traditionally female hobbies, (crocheting, sewing, embroidery ect.) I know my mom is proud of me and my creations but she can't show me off to our friends and family and that makes me upset. It feels like what I make or do isn't appreciated or seen by my family because "that's a girl's hobby". Though they are cousins and aunts that are very amazed with what I do, I have a passion of creating clothing but because of my gender I feel limited to only show my works that are for males, which I have none so I can't show anything to my older family members without getting side eyed lol.

Kinda feel bad for my mom, she expected a manly son but all she got is me. I feel as if I'm lower than others because one time she tried to say to her friend "look my son crochets! Isn't that great?" But all my mom got in response is "Is he gay?!" In a rude and disrespectful tone, I saw my mom's face, she literally looked disappointed. Sometimes I do wish I liked traditionally masculine things like sports or something but I always remember on how proud I was when I finished a crocheted garment, that feeling keeps me going. Even if I'm like this, that isn't a reason for my mom to stop loving me.

Why do we have to live in a world where one gender is only set to be able to do a few activities? I feel like there's so many limitions and my mom subtly urging me to try sports is making me feel uncomfortable.

Thanks for reading my rant loll