DD for not going to AT

I'm at the end of my enlistment I've turned In gear & ETS at the end of the march my unit expects me to be at AT from the end of February to the middle of March I submitted a Suta for financial hardship due to loss of income having no gear, & my wife's health issues & was denied I've already used my gi bill va loan & collect disability do you think they'd DD me over this & if I were to be DD'd would I have to pay back my benefits