I dislike see mixed girl and black men couples

I probably will be downvoted, but have heard many stories about mixed women being fetishize by black men, and how some black guys will make mixed girl feel "guilty" for being lightskin, and how many of them feel like they own mixed women and upset when biracial girl reject them(Doja Cat is huge example), I start to dislike when biracial women with black men. In those times I feel like something "forces" a girl to be with him, perhaps she will be called racist for dating or marrying men of other races, which is fool, since we are mixed, and men of other races attracted to us.