My wife basically never tells me where she's going or who she's with, is this normal?

Hi I'm 37M my wife 37F. We're recently married and I'm noticing some behaviours that upset me. But just because I'm upset doesn't mean I'm right so looking for some advice. My wife works normal shifts (9-5 Mon-fri) and I work odd shifts that change every week, night shifts, weekends, days, mornings, the whole lot.

I've found she basically will never tell me whether she'll be home when I come home from work, I often come home to an empty house. From my side I always try and keep her in the loop if I've made plans where I'm going and who I'm with and mostly tend to invite her though she often says no. So when I don't know where she is I just text or call her right? But she never ever responds. She basically always goes straight to voicemail when she's out. I can question her about where she's been but that's not very fun at all, she gets very defensive and doesn't want to give any detail and I hate trying to pry information out of her, it feels like an interrogation and I'm not that kind of guy. I hate having an argument.

So I'm just wondering is it normal that I'm often upset and feel quite neglected not knowing where my wife is and what she's doing? Or is it normal in a marriage to kind of relax and live separate lives some of the time and not share everything?

TL;DR Weird shift patterns and my wife is often out and never tells me where she's been without having to press her which is really not fun for me