I’m back for a fill-up

This was an invaluable and supportive community during the worst of my time in limerence island. I’ve been great for a few years now and decided to back away.

It’s been awhile since I had intrusive thoughts about her but they’re creeping back. I learned this week (by googling her, I admit) that she’s been divorced since last year and suddenly I have an urge—slight but growing—to contact her.

It would kill my marriage to my wife whom I adore. Objectively a bad idea to contact her but who’s objective?