Does lex ruin lives?

Ive been on 10 mg Lexapro for 2 months now at 10 mg and I’m just starting to really feel the effects and I am doing so much better. It basically saved my life. Whats this stigma around antidepressants that it ruins lives ? How come everyone says this? Ive only been on it for 2 months but i cant see how it can affect anyone in the long run