Why do people love to bully INFPs?

I feel like this type is the brunt of mbti memes and rants. Kinda sad and makes me question my own type. I'm an ENTP and I've always admired INFPs but thinking subs love to hate on yall. And it makes me question my own type. Like can I actually be an ENTP bc I like INFPs and relate to them? This type seem so fun and balances me out.

Sometimes I get annoyed by my high Fi friends but I also am grateful for their differences. It helps me see other perspectives. They also help me with Fe related issues such as insecurity and masking to blend in. And I'd like to think I balance them by helping them think less black and white. Sometimes I play the devils advocate too much or try to fix their problems instead of just listening but they are very understanding and forgiving. Their honesty is a blessing.

I'm also a female entp, so I don't relate much to them either. Just being more in touch with fe makes me look like an infp on the outside because I know how to be nice and I don't like to troll or antagonize. But I also lack the strong sense of self in Fi. I change who I am constantly based on social context. It's all technically me but I have several versions of myself whereas I think Fi is usually more authentic. Sorry for the ramble😭

Do you guys notice the hate or is it more predominantly in NT subs? Does it bother you?

Maybe the real problem is us! Too many ENTPs refuse to work on Fe at all. All four functions matter not just the first two. Imo it's really unhealthy to neglect the whole stack. But dang, a lot of ENTPs get way into the Ti and act like Fe is useless. Smh