Patels, need your help

Dear fellow patels(kadva patel khaas kari ne), Help your fellow gujju couple getting some insights.

Backgrounds: Boy: 12th pachi diploma in canada(Patel) Girl: btech pachi pgd in canada(Brahmin)

Chhokra na parents ne taklif che k chhokri no bhai bija caste ni laayo che to ae family jode na karay. Samaj vada su kehse Girl and her family's question: How is this making any sense? Tamari chhokri lavani che k chhokri na bhabhi ne?

Help us with this situation. Ask your parents (if possible) k su aa valid reason che? How to navigate in this situation? Kemke emna pase biju koi "yogya" kaaran che nai. Bhantar ma b chhokri aagad che, caste caste kare che ema pan chhokri brahmin che.

Edit: Chhokra no chhokri ne aatlu thaya pachi no jawab: "Pan hu parents ne dukhi na kari saku, ae accept karta j nathi, ane hu karis to ae m@ri jase, pan mare Tara jode j karva che pan nai mane to nai thay, hu try karu chhu pan tya sudhi tu aagad vadhi ja, thase to kai dais"

Edit 2: please everyone samme vadu manas gamme tevu hoy pan please let's maintain the respect🙏🏻