Kinda just ranting atm :/

So is anyone else kinda just feeling stuck or lost within their love life? Like I'm turning 22 this year and I've never been in a relationship with a dude. I know alot of ppl themselves are in the same boat as me but its got me thinking alot on whether it's me or if my standards are too high..? I'm just sick of being alone and seeing my friends have what I want. Don't get me wrong I'm happy for them but I just want that aswell. It even got to the point where I was debating on just hooking up with some random off grindr just to feel something from another guy but ik deep down I don't want a hook up and it would most likely make me feel worse than I do rn. I just hate how lonely I am within friendships and relationships...