Can’t tell what my hair needs anymore.

I have fine, curly hair about an average amount. This is what my hair looks like after washing/conditioning it in the shower and then applying oil to length/ends. I let it air dry and then finished it with a blow-dryer on medium/warm settings. I feel like my hair in its natural state should look so much better than this….

I clarify once a week Shampoo/Condition every 3-4 days I oil my ends every 3-4 days I use silk scrunchies Silk pillowcase I never brush dry only when wet with conditioner or right after the shower.

And even with products the difference isn’t that better. I still look like I have very dry hair. It’s very, very protein sensitive and I live somewhere that has hard water. When I touch it, it does feel very soft and even though it appears damage is not.

Does anyone else experience this type of hair and what did you do to make it look nicer?