[DAV ALL SPOILERS] Does anyone else have issues romancing characters who get together with someone else if you don’t?

I had this realisation after playing Veilguard that I definitely do have this ‘issue’.

Originally I had intended to romance Neve, then I found out she and Lucanis would start a romance if left alone and all my thoughts about pursuing either one went away, same thing happened with Harding and Taash soon after.

Then thinking about the rest of BioWares games I realised this was a running thing. Dorian and Bull both romances I loved during my first DAI playthroughs don’t even enter as a possibility for me now when thinking about new runs post Tresspasser’s release.

It’s the same reason I can’t romance Garrus or Tali as well, though I always found bro Garrus better than partner Garrus anyway.

Is this something other people have as well?