[No DAV Spoilers] Is anyone else waiting to actually play the game before deciding on background, class, romance, etc?

I mean no disrespect with this question, I'm genuinely curious as I thought I had my Rook all figured out about a month ago...

I was 100% going to be a human warrior Grey Warden who romanced Davrin, but after all the info that has come out, showcases, reading Tiventer Nights, listening to Vows and Vengeance, I honestly have no idea anymore.

I feel like so many of the options will probably be great, so at this point I'm resigned to just see how I feel in the moment and go with it.

Anyone else in this boat?