My motivation for sex really is emotional rather than sexual

Hello! Long time lurker, first time poster. English isn't my first language so I apologize for any mistakes!

I'm currently in my first romantic relationship. Before this, I always thought I was a sex-repulsed ace, as in I never felt any sexual attraction towards anyone. I did have crushes on a few people but could never picture myself ever having sex, the sole thought of it grossed me out and so I never even tried to pursue relationships just so I would never "have to have sex".

But then I met my partner and at the start of our relationship I warned him I wasn't even sure I would ever want to have sex, and he was okay with it. Well, our relationship has been beyond amazing so far and I can't believe how much I love him more and more everyday. We have built that infamous "strong emotional bond" and I feel loved and safe enough to engage in sexual activities with him on a regular basis, and the truth is I genuinely love it. I'm happy to initiate as much as he does, and sometimes I even feel like I want it more than he, an allosexual man, does. Clearly I'm not the sex-repulsed ace I thought I was and switched to the demisexual label instead, since I'm only able to have sex in a trusting and loving relationship.

However, as much as I love this man and trust him with my life and think he's the most handsome human being on earth, I still don't feel sexual attraction (at least I don't think I do but can't say for sure as I'm not sure how it's supposed to feel). My motivation for sex really is emotional rather than sexual. It's the need to feel him close to me, to be intimate with him, but I really couldn't care less on the rare occasion I don't climax, like I'm just happy we shared that vulnerable moment, because to me that's the whole point.

Which I know invalidates my being demisexual (as demisexuality involves sexual attraction), but where on the spectrum would that put me? Anyone else on this sub relates? I know I don't necessarily need to label myself as long as I am happy and it works for me, but words and labels really do help me understand myself (and the world) better.

Thanks ♡