Maybe not DB

I can’t say that I (38f) and my husband (48m) have a true DB. We do have sex. It’s just so infrequent and I’m tired of initiating and being turned down. It has really rocked my psyche.

I went on a work trip and found myself lusting for a stranger that I spent a week working with. No judgement for those who cheat, I spent quite a bit of time daydreaming (not acting) about being a bit more naughty than professional. I just was so excited that someone was flirting with me. And I am embarrassed to report that I feel unfulfilled. My husband is an amazing father and a truly wonderful human — just can’t help but think that something is wrong with me. Because the spark is gone.